Very often responsability and blame are mingled and to tell someone that he is responable of his life is understood as a blame. But responsability means simply, being able to respond to the Self. And trust in oneself is one of the most soophisticated states of consciousness one can be. As says Bashar:
TRUST IS YOUR WILLINGNESS TO EXPRESS THE FUNDAMENTAL RIGHT THAT YOU HAVE TO EXIST!
Trust is all there is. That is all that creates your entire reality – TRUST. Everything you experience, even your negative reality, is the product of your trust. Trust is very simple. It is your willingness to express the fundamental right that you have to exist. You did not have to do anything to deserve to exist. You exist. You do not have to prove yourself to continue to exist in any way that you choose to. Trust that since you are here now, you always will be.
Where are you rushing to? You have all the time in the universe, because you are creating it. Relax! Enjoy yourself! Trust that you know what you are doing. The only reason that you create panic is because you don’t think you know what you are doing. But you do.
To need to hope means you are fearful that your trust is not enough.
TRUST THAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
Trusting yourself is simply knowing that you are responsible for everything in your reality that you experience. Even when you create the idea that you are not creating your reality, you are still creating that idea. It always comes back to you.
Responsibility does not mean blame. It means you have free choice. If you have created everything that you have experienced — that means you can create anything!
YOU CAN CREATE ANYTHING –BECAUSE YOU ARE THE CREATOR!